Alexander Monro breast cancer Hospital
As soon as Marjolein de Jong shakes your hand and fixes her steel blue eyes on you, you see it: the dedication and determination. Under her direction, with the help of her dedicated colleagues,the Alexander Monro Hospital in the Netherlands has become a worldwide example of state-of-the-art personalized breast cancer care. In other words: a place where the patient feels that they come first. “We focus on caring and curing.”
Marlies: What is the idea behind the Alexander Monro Hospital?
Marjolein: We are the first breast cancer hospital to be structured completely around the needs of the patients and their loved ones while being utterly committed to fighting all the different types of breast diseases. It’s a two-fold focus of caring and curing that has proven to bring excellent results, both medically and emotionally.
Marlies: I am not surprised that for 5 years straight, you have scored a 9.5 on overall patient satisfaction, the highest score in the Netherlands. Walking into the hospital, I was immediately struck with how much empathy for the patient there is in every detail.
Marjolein: Thank you. Let’s be honest: nobody comes here for fun. So, during each part of the process, we want you to feel that we are here for you, from the moment you enter our hospital. Our consulting rooms are like living rooms, with wall decorations inspired by strong, courageous women such as Mexican painter Frida Kahlo and scientist Marie Curie, and the tables are round to stimulate real contact. This way, the professionals talk with you, not to you. They are not hiding behind their computers but really getting to know you and your loved ones, who are extremely important as your support system. One of the most crucial, but also most difficult moments in the process is the visit to the radiologist’s office. Here, a final diagnosis of your situation will be made. Just imagine sitting there half-undressed, nervously waiting for the mammography.
Marlies: You feel extremely vulnerable.
Marjolein: Exactly. That is why we provide you with a gorgeous, bright pink scarf that you can wrap around yourself. So many patients have told us that it gave them a sense of privacy and dignity when they most needed it.
Marlies: A small, but such a significant gesture!
Marjolein: Indeed. You know, a healing environment is not only important for patients but also for the professionals. It helps us to be more careful, gentle and empathetic towards the patients. Breast cancer needs a multidisciplinary approach, so we have people from all disciplines working together, physically, under one roof. Usually, the different departments get together once or twice a week, but in our hospital, we meet twice a day to discuss our patients. This situation is unique in the world.
Marlies: You are a surgical oncologist yourself. What triggered your interest in this field?
Marjolein: While I was working as a psychologist in a prison, my director got breast cancer. For the first time in my life I got to experience the impact of the disease up close. On top of that, during my studies, I became aware of what a huge problem breast cancer is. One out of 8 women experiences breast cancer during their lifetime and in the Netherlands alone, 9 women die of the disease every day. I saw women around me struggling with it that were much younger than me. I felt the urgency to not only help them get better, but to make them stronger afterwards. And that’s what we are doing, all of us at the Alexander Monro hospital: helping women and men during the entire process.
Marlies: What is the best way to do a self-breast exam? Do you have any tips for us?
Marjolein: People used to always talk about feeling your breasts. But we have found that you can learn much more by seeing than feeling, so we now urge women to visually examine their breasts as well. There is a fantastic campaign in the US called ‘Know Your Lemons’ which uses different types of lemons to show you what breast cancer can look like. For example, look out for a change of the color or structure of your skin; notice if there are dimples, dents or thickened red patches. Also, it is common for one breast to be different in size and shape from the other, but if one breast flattens, swells or droops unexpectedly, this could be a sign of breast cancer. When any of these changes are persistent, do not hesitate to get them checked by a professional!
Marlies: We have been developing a special Care Bra, which is technically a post-surgery bra but with our own signature style. What role can lingerie play for women who have undergone such an invasive process?
Marjolein: A big part of the healing process is being able to pick up your life again. Wearing your usual style of clothes can really help with that, and so can lingerie. Your breasts, however, will keep changing in size during the recovery period and you may still experience pain and discomfort. A lot of the post-op bras out there are unattractive or sporty-looking and for some women, wearing them is a daily reminder of the ordeal they went through. You have to understand that even though the cancer may be gone, the impact of it is something you will always carry with you. But a bra in your style that accommodates your needs can play a huge role reclaiming your identity and self-esteem.
Marlies: Thank you, Marjolein. It’s been incredibly inspiring to meet you.
Running for your life
Dr. Bram Bakker is a psychiatrist, a writer, a runner and a provocateur. With his many bestselling books and columns – and yes, even his own theatre show – he urges us to think outside the box when it comes to our mental health. Not crazy about popping pills? Bram shared some interesting alternatives with me, from throwing out our phones to running ‘till we puke’.
Peas & peppers instead of pills
General practitioner Tamara de Weijer believes that we would feel a lot better if we hit the produce stand before we visited the pharmacy. “On a massive scale, we have been putting the wrong kind of fuel in our bodies.”
Singles Day – You’ve Got this!
All the single ladies, listen up! With single women rapidly becoming the majority, it is high time to stop feeling singled out. This Singles Day, let’s celebrate our freedom and independence by sharing all those solo milestones that make us go: ‘You’ve got this!’.
As soon as I held my newborn daughter Zilver in my arms, I realized that I had been given a hugely important task: to give her wings. So, I raised her using the exact same motto with which I design all my lingerie: dare to dream, dare to grow, dare to be. And I never stopped using my own wings to fly, traveling the world to make my dreams come true. Because I believed that being ‘more than a mother’ was the best way to teach by example. But what did Zilver think of having a mother with wanderlust?